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Surgeon reveals Dubai residents go under the knife to boost careers

If you want to stand out from the stack of CVs awaiting recruiters these days you could get some sparkling references, study for an extra degree – or have some cosmetic surgery.

The latter option is increasingly popular among those looking to climb the career ladder in Dubai, according to one top surgeon. Dr Jaffer Khan, boss at the Aesthetics International clinic in Dubai, says one of the biggest cosmetic trends he sees today is folk in their 40s and 50s looking for a lift in an attempt to keep up with the kids in the workplace.

As the effects of ageing begin to take their toll – we’re not helped by living in the unrelenting climactic conditions of the desert – an ever-growing number are choosing to go under the knife.

“The workplace is seeing much younger managers,” says Dr Khan. He claims 90 per cent of his clientele are women and he performs about 25 surgeries a month. around 70 per cent of Dr Khan’s surgery is cosmetic related – with liposuction and breast procedures the most popular operations. Some patients who seek his help are hoping to improve their career along with their appearance.

“a lot of sales, advertising, PR jobs all require a great degree of presentation skills – physical as well as verbal.

“Let’s face it, if a pretty woman walks through the door and tries to sell me something, I’ll listen. I might not buy it – but she’s got my attention!

“Physical attributes do have a bearing on what we do – as little as we like to admit it.” Dr Khan says he tries “to make people look like they used to.”

Last summer, Lucy Monro, 48, a Dubai resident for nearly 20 years and editor-in-chief at magazine publishing firm Swiss Media Group, went under Dr Khan’s knife, which saw her face “moved” 4.5cms.

And she says: “whereas most people think what plastic surgeons do is frivolous, what they actually do is give people their life back.

“They’re giving people choice. The younger you look and the better you look for longer, the more successful you are likely to be – that’s just fact. You just have to look around you.” Monro, also a World Championship-level elephant polo player, says that when she gazed in the mirror before deciding to opt for surgery, the reflection coming back “wasn’t me – and that increasingly annoyed me.”

She adds: “I looked better for 47 than most people at 47 but didn’t look as good as I wanted to do.” known as the “max lift”, Monro’s cosmetic surgery cost “about $30,000”.

“I had savings, I had the cash in the bank,” admits British national Monro, who is married but has no children.

“I’m not paying school fees – and I’ve always been in control of my own finances. If I hadn’t been able to pay for it for myself, I don’t think I could have done it,” she says.

Requests for “combination procedures” – such as a nose job and a breast job – can cost “up to Dhs65,000.” Dr Khan, 53, says the number of young Emiratis seeking to go under the knife – currently about 15 per cent of his overall cosmetic work – is on the up.

“Especially those who have been educated in the West,” says the Pakistani surgeon. of course the growing popularity of cosmetic surgery ensures the one set of professionals who don’t have to worry in the current economy are surgeons themselves. Dr Khan reckons his business is growing at about 10 per cent a year – and that about one-in-four of Dubai’s 50 or so cosmetic surgeons are dollar millionaires.

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Dubai surgeon ‘nose’ what he likes

Ask Dr Jaffer Khan if there are surgeries he won’t do – and his answer may surprise you.

“Often,” he insists. “If I think the patient is there for the wrong purposes, I will refuse the surgery. or if I think the outcomes are not going to match the expectations, or the surgery is too risky.” according to Dr Khan there have been a couple of incidents in Dubai where people have died after being “over lipo-ed.”

“I do not do liposuction for weight loss – I refuse. What do you do with all the saggy skin?”

Patients today are crystal clear about what they don’t want. “They’ve become very conscious of the fact that they ‘don’t want to look like Pamela Anderson’ or ‘don’t want to look like Michael Jackson’,” says Dr Khan.

“I look at Bruce Jenner on the Kardashians show – and he looks like a clown. Now that’s surgery gone wrong. The perfect surgery doesn’t look ‘done’.” So I feel duty bound to inform you that, according to Dr Khan, I – your humble reporter (pictured, 3rd above) – have “the perfect nose.” honestly. “do you know how rare that is?” he tells me, adding: “Could you tell everyone I did your nose?”

Sorry Doc, afraid not. I got it from my Mama.

Surgeon reveals Dubai residents go under the knife to boost careers

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By Francisco J. Colayco

Aside from changes in work attitude, there are three other concerns where attitudes may need to be changed. these are in retirement, credit card and providing children with inheritance. Today, we tackle retirement.

Many aspire to retire earlier than the law allows. At age 50, any retirement package received is already tax-free. however, for many companies, compulsory retirement is either age 60-65. I think most start getting “burned-out” by their late 40s. They think of retiring in their 50s but, maybe that is too early to retire. maybe, they just need a long vacation and then, get into active work again. or perhaps, change into a less stressful undertaking.

You need to prepare for your retirement from the time you start working. Of course, new graduates in their first job can never imagine they will grow old but we seniors know that it comes sooner than we ever thought it would. most of the time, it is already too late to do anything about it.

If you are in the prime of your life, 20-40 years old, you are busy earning a living, proving that you are good, and making your employer rich. There is nothing bad about all these goals. but include your personal retirement package. Retirement packages from employers are generally not enough to fully support all your needs indefinitely upon retirement. And, there can be reversals in business and it is possible that by the time you retire, the company can no longer afford your package.the same holds true for our government retirement pay through Social Security system or Government Service Insurance system. We have read/heard time and again in the news that the funds of the SSS and GSIS may not be properly invested to cover requirements at the time of retirement of the members. In fact, in other countries, the government retirement age when benefits can be distributed has been increased by 5 years.

It is better not to retire early, if you have the choice. Do your computation of benefits, if any. when the retirement of 65 years old was established, most people died in their 60s and 70s. Today, many live to 80s and 90s and are still strong.

Some are lucky to receive retirement pay and still be young enough to take on active work. let me warn you that the worse thing you can do is to invest your retirement pay in a new business where the success rate is very low. when you are young and make a mistake, you have time to recover. At retirement, just invest in very low risk options. unfortunately, low risk means low returns. this is why your retirement package plus your own lifetime savings should be big enough to maintain your lifestyle even if you only receive low returns.

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Survivors recall horror of night Army Staff Sgt. Robert Bales allegedly shot up Afghan village

KANDAHAR, Afghanistan it was early in the morning, perhaps 2 a.m., when gunfire awoke 14-year-old Rafiullah. </p><p>he looked outside the house he’d been sleeping in with his grandmother, an aunt, two cousins and his sister, and he saw a man with a weapon walk to a shed that housed the family cow and open fire, shooting the animal dead.</p><p>“I told the women inside our room: ‘Let’s run! Let’s get out of here,’ ” recalled Rafiullah, who like many Afghans goes by only one name.</p><p>In the next compound, a short distance from the house where Rafiullah had been sleeping, Haji Mohammad Naim awoke to the sound of dogs barking wildly in the street. </p><p>“Then there was shooting, and the dogs stopped barking,” said Naim, who’s in his 50s.Shortly afterward, there was pandemonium at Naim’s front door as Rafiullah and a handful of terrified women and children poured into his yard, seeking shelter. Minutes later, another woman and a young girl emerged from the darkness.</p><p>“she was screaming and crying,” Naim said of the woman. “she said, ‘My husband has been martyred,’ ” meaning that he’d been killed.</p><p>Suddenly a silhouette appeared, moving rapidly behind a bright light. Naim thought that U.S. forces were raiding his village, and he expected a squad of soldiers to arrive. Instead, he saw just one man. </p><p>“he got closer, and then he started shooting at me,” Naim said. </p><p>the story that Rafiullah and Naim recently told a McClatchy reporter is the first public account by survivors in their village of the events of March 11, when a man whom U.S. officials have identified as Army Staff Sgt. Robert Bales allegedly shot and killed 17 people in two Afghan villages.</p><p> American officials, who say Bales returned to his base nearby after the shootings and surrendered without a fight, quickly spirited him out of Afghanistan to the United States, where he’s awaiting trial on murder and other charges at the Army’s maximum-security prison at Fort Leavenworth, Kan.</p><p>U.S. officials have offered no motive for the shootings and have divulged scant details of what investigators think took place in the villages of Alkozai, where Rafiullah and Naim live, and Najiban, which also lies near Bales’ base at Belambai in the Panjway district of Kandahar province.</p><p>the accounts by Rafiullah and Naim, both of whom were wounded in the rampage, offer new details of Bales’ alleged actions. A third survivor, Naim’s 11-year-old son, Sadiqullah, also was interviewed. But he said he’d remained hidden behind a curtain throughout the violence, and it was uncertain what he’d seen.</p><p>How valuable Naim’s and Rafiullah’s testimony would be in a U.S. military court is unclear. Both said they didn’t see the shooter’s face clearly enough to identify him, and both are uncertain about the exact time, noting that no one in the houses had a watch. Officials haven’t divulged which village they think was attacked first.</p><p>But the survivors’ accounts lend an urgency that’s been lacking in the official version of events, and they convey the brutality and the seeming randomness of what took place in those early morning hours. Before the shooting ended in Alkozai, Rafiullah’s grandmother was dead, his sister was critically wounded, three other people had been killed and five others were wounded in three adjacent houses. Most of the victims were related by blood or marriage.</p><p>Naim said he felt rooted to the ground as the shooter bore down on him. Bullets whizzed through the night. the gunfire seemed to come at him in bursts, perhaps as many as 10 shots altogether, Naim recalled, some fired from just feet away. </p><p>two struck him in the upper left side of his chest and one ripped skin from the left side of his jaw. Then everything went black.</p><p>the shooter stepped past Naim’s unconscious body and entered his home, confronting Rafiullah and his relatives who’d taken refuge in the main room. with them were around a dozen of Naim’s family members, roused by the gunfire but still half-asleep.</p><p>Terror unfolded in the crowded space, the frightened faces of women and children illuminated only by a light that Rafiullah said appeared to be affixed to an assault rifle. the shooter drove everyone before him, herding and hunting his victims like animals.</p><p>Spotting Rafiullah, he seized one of the boy’s arms. Rafiullah said his grandmother seized his other arm, to try to stop the soldier from dragging him away. the soldier turned on her. </p><p>“he shot my grandmother, he wounded my sister Zardana and wounded me,” Rafiullah said. “he opened fire on Naim’s son, Sadiqullah, and also opened fire on Naim’s daughter. Then the soldier left.” </p><p>Help for the wounded eventually arrived, although Rafiullah – like Naim – had fallen unconscious, and was unable later to say how long it took to get there. the survivors were rushed, by a relative who’d borrowed a car, to a nearby U.S.-Afghan base, then flown by helicopter to a U.S. military hospital at Kandahar airfield. </p><p><!– EDITORS: STORY CAN END HEREEDITORS: BEGIN OPTIONAL TRIM –></p><p>Rafiullah, who had a gunshot wound to each leg, found himself in a bed next to Naim’s son, Sadiqullah, who’d received a bullet wound to his right earlobe.</p><p>Rafiullah told McClatchy that Afghanistan’s president, Hamid Karzai, phoned him in the aftermath of the attack and U.S. authorities later interviewed him while he was in the hospital. “two times they talked to me,” he said. </p><p>A day or two after the massacre, he also spoke to the man Karzai had appointed as his chief investigator into the killings, Gen. Sher Mohammad Karimi, the Afghan army chief . </p><p>“To all of them I said the same thing,” Rafiullah said. “I saw only one shooter.”</p><p>Curiously, Karimi later backed the “multiple attacker” theory, which was also advanced by Karzai, although Karimi subsequently acknowledged in an interview with McClatchy that Rafiullah and Sadiqullah had told him otherwise.</p><p>Naim, who said he regained consciousness four days after the attack, also told McClatchy that U.S. investigators had interviewed him in the hospital. But he said their Afghan counterparts hadn’t interviewed him, despite him being one of a handful of adults to survive the shootings.</p><p>A tall man with a graying beard and gnarled face, who gave his age as “between 50 and 60,” Naim said he felt abandoned by the Afghan government after the massacre. No government official had been to see him or to ask about his welfare. </p><p>“They care only about themselves,” he said.</p><p>the only official contact he’d had since his discharge from the hospital was when he was summoned, still wounded, to Kandahar city and interrogated by an officer from Afghanistan’s much-feared intelligence service, the National Directorate of Security.</p><p>“That man was a bastard,” Naim said. “he accused me of having laid IEDs” – improvised explosive devices, or homemade bombs – “before the massacre to target the American forces.” </p><p>Naim said he’d previously seen Taliban members placing such devices near his home in Alkozai, but that he’d told them not to, as he and his family might be targeted in response. like many civilians in southern Afghanistan, he felt he was caught in a struggle between the insurgents and U.S.-led forces. Sadiqullah had been wounded earlier by shrapnel from an American mortar round that had landed near his home. </p><p>Sadiqullah underwent surgery at the U.S. military hospital in Kandahar after that attack, too, and his wound had barely healed by the night of the massacre. </p><p><!– END OPTIONAL TRIM –></p><p>Rafiullah has largely recovered from the physical wounds. Naim said he needed ongoing medical treatment for his own wounds. he walks with difficulty and has lost strength in his hands. “I can hardly pick up this plastic bag,” he said.</p><p>Zardana, Rafiullah’s sister, is the victim most in need of specialized care. Shot in the head, she remains partially paralyzed in the U.S. base hospital. her uncle, Juma Khan, said U.S. officials had yet to follow through on a pledge to get her more sophisticated care in the United States.</p><p>“If the Americans can’t organize these simple things, they should return Zardana to us so the world can see her condition,” he said. “If America can’t help us, we will ask the international community for help.”

Survivors recall horror of night Army Staff Sgt. Robert Bales allegedly shot up Afghan village

Sports Leader

South Africa won their first Test series at home since beating Bangladesh in 2008 after two dominant displays at Centurion and Newlands, plus being taught a lesson at Kingsmead in Durban (again).

Jacques Kallis silenced his ever-present band of critics, who, like an ex-partner dating your best mate, are always too near for comfort. sure, he was lucky not to be caught at the beginning of his innings, but after banging his second Test double-century, who cares? Great players, and Kallis is one of those, profit from the misfortune of the opposition.

Vernon Philander showed at Newlands that he isn’t a one trick pony when it comes to getting batsmen out. Whispers have been made that he could only do the job on green-tops, but after his Newlands performance against Sri Lanka, he showed that he has the necessary skill to pose problems to batsmen on unhelpful surfaces.

Jacques Rudolph’s return to the team has been disappointing but he can count himself lucky that another man, Ashwell Prince, hasn’t scored a Test century since March 2009 and hit only three 50s in 27 innings since that hundred against Australia when he opened the batting. Prince was definitely messed around by the selectors, but Rudolph got his spot on the basis of not having had the opportunity to fail as much.

Another man who had an axe hanging over his head at the start of the series, which hasn’t gone away but only crept ever closer, is mark Boucher. 95 runs in six digs at 15.83, with 65 of those in the first innings at Centurion, has left his place in the side precarious, or at least it should be.

He didn’t have a poor series with the gloves, snaring 17 catches and a stumping but he did drop two sitters, one of which cost SA 100 runs in Durban. his keeping has never been the problem essentially (apart from dropping Michael Atherton in 1998 off Allan Donald – that one made me squirm). He isn’t a Kamran Akmal, the definitive poster boy for a concrete-handed gloveman, but it’s his batting that’s not measuring up.

Considering the Protea’s schizo batting line-up, Herculean one innings and meek as a young boy stung on the bottom by a bee approaching a chair the next, the importance of having a reliable source of runs at No. 7 has never been more paramount.

Last season he scored 141 runs in seven innings at 23.50. that means in 10 Test matches (a pitiful amount for a team that is supposedly one of the best) over the last two seasons he has notched up a combined total of 236 runs in 13 innings at 18.15. Doesn’t make great reading does it?

Boucher has strong support within the team’s leadership clique it can be imagined, from the outside looking in. He played with both head coach Gary Kirsten and bowling coach Allan Donald, played under assistant coach Russell Domingo when he was at the Warriors and apart from Jacques Kallis, is the most experienced Proteas player in history. He has always been a part of the furniture (virtually) at Test level, like a known lazy-boy sitting in one’s lounge. While his relationships with those in ‘power’ may have spared him for now, the question needs to be asked, who is next in line?

The selectors don’t seem to know either, with AB de Villiers set to keep in the ODIs and no one on the domestic circuit given a whiff of his Test spot. Heino Kuhn seemed to be the man for a while, but has since been banished back to the Supersport Series. Others are out there, such as Dane Vilas, Daryn Smit and Thami Tsolekile V2.0, but we won’t know how good they really are until they are given a chance.

Boucher will most likely travel with the team to England and Australia. Perhaps the series in New Zealand, testing conditions for a wicket keeper where the ball moves in the air after it passes the wicket, could be the place to blood a new face?

Either way, Boucher turns 36 on December 3, and unless he manages to show some Kallis-esque appetite for runs as his career winds down, maintaining his position in the team if he isn’t performing with the bat would do more harm than good for the Proteas’ future prospects. Either he steps up, which isn’t out of the realm of possibility, or the selectors need to do what they get paid for, and make a change.

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Battlelines drawn in new gangland

Special operations group officers enter the crime scene in Brooklyn. Picture: Craig Borrow Source: Herald Sun

POLICE were moving to clamp down on the new gangland last night as some members of the grieving Chaouk family vowed to "get" a rival Haddara patriarch released from custody.

A man in his 50s, believed to be Ahmad Haddara, was released without charge yesterday afternoon after spending a night in police custody following the execution of rival clan head Macchour Chaouk.

As members of the Chaouk family reacted with anger to his release, there were fears of more mayhem in the new gangland.

The Chaouks believe Macchour was killed by Ahmad Haddara – the head of a rival gangland clan.

They claim Haddara was avenging the murder of his son, Mohammed, in June last year.

Police have charged a Chaouk associate with that murder.

"Whoever gets to him (Haddara) first is the lucky one," Nayef Chaouk, nephew and son-in-law of Macchour Chaouk, said.

"If they let him go, it’s good.

"If he’s in jail, it’s good. Whatever happens happens."

However, Victoria Police is understood to be waging a broad operation – led by Deputy Commissioner Sir Ken Jones – to prevent more murders.

It also emerged a son of Macchour Chaouk, who is on remand, heard the fatal gunshots that killed his father as he spoke to his mother on a daily phone call from prison.

Ali Chaouk, who is on remand, was left shaken after the chilling phone call in which he heard the drama unfold.

It is believed his mother, Fatma, rushed to her husband’s aid after hearing the shots ring out from the backyard of the family’s Brooklyn compound.

A nephew of the dead man, who said his name was John Chaouk, claimed the Haddara patriarch was being pursued by authorities when he fled Lebanon for Australia decades ago.

"No one’s in a good mood today," he said

"We’re going to leave it to the police. No revenge."

But one of Ahmed Haddara’s daughters-in-law said the Haddara patriarch had nothing to do with Macchour Chaouk’s death.

"my father-in-law didn’t do anything.

"He’s been released without charge. he was nominated by the Chaouks," she said.

"there wasn’t any witnesses, no one saw (the shooting). they didn’t see the vehicle.

"they didn’t see anything. It’s from their mouths. It’s the lowest thing to do."

John Chaouk said: "We’ve got nothing against the family.

"they think it was us that killed (Mohammed Haddara). We never had nothing against them.

"Sadi (Haddara) shot Sam Haddara to do a big set up so they could raid our house," he said.

"he didn’t mean it to get in the face, but God punished them and made it get them in the face."

The two Chaouk sons on remand have been isolated for their safety, prison sources said.

The Sunday Herald Sun understands Ali was left hanging on the phone, listening for minutes after the murder of his father. It is believed he also heard several more gunshots directed at his mother – all of them missing their target.

It is unclear if the phone call was recorded by Corrections Victoria.

"the boys are shattered," the prison source said.

"one of them once said it’s unbelievable – this (the family dispute) has gone on for so long.

"they come from a very loyal, very solid family. Life means nothing to these people."

There were Muslim prayers chanted at the Chaouk house yesterday as the family mourned the death of Macchour – father of Fadi, Waleed, Nazim and the late Mohamed – who had a string of convictions for violence and drugs.

Mohamed Chaouk died after being shot in a police raid on the clan’s Brooklyn home in 2005.

The results of probes into that shooting have not been released.

Police have claimed they acted in self-defence after Chaouk threatened them with a samurai sword.

The raid followed a six-month investigation into the alleged criminal activities of some members of the Chaouk family.

Gangland sources close to the Chaouk family complained police recently removed security cameras from the Chaouk premises.

Senior Victoria Police last night denied they took out cameras, but confirmed they had seized other items during a recent raid that allegedly uncovered guns and blank passports.

Police were last night trying to keep any further violence in the new gangland under control.

"Victoria Police continues to take active steps in a number of Melbourne communities to guard against any risk of escalation," Deputy Commissioner Sir Ken Jones said.

He called for calm to allow the investigation to go forward and bring those responsible to justice.

He warned anyone who might be contemplating further violence that they would be caught and placed before the courts.

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