Hello. I am 18 years old, come from a good family, I am very talented and good at school, I am routinely told I’m gorgeous and I have a very successful life ahead of me. but I’m plagued by such a bad body image. I have to admit–when I’m fully clothed, I think I look fine. I have good features. I’m also slim with clothes on. No one would ever really tell the storm inside my heart.

I have big areolasand stretch marks on my ass.I have money for plastic surgery,but should it be better used on therapy?

GUYS: please be honest. I have heard before many times that big nipples are a turn off. I am a single girl of 18. I have stretchmarks on my ass that are not just small. They’re so gross and nasty and ugly, dismarking my otherwise nice lower half. I have good breasts except my HUGE areolas. I can add links to show.

This is out of insecurity and a hideous amount of self-hate.but what do you think? is a girl less attractive because of these flaws? And is it a huge turn off? can you accept big areolas and still find a girl beautiful? I hav added a few pictures of myself to show you how I otherwise look clothed. Me naked is a different story.

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WHY AM I YOUNG WITH THESE STRETCH MARKS? why can 30 year old women be beautiful and have perfect skin and I CANT?! I know I have it better than a lot of disabled people or people living in poverty. sometimes I feel so guilty to be ungrateful for what I have. but I cant help it, which is why I’m thinking of therapy. Maybe I’m stupid to hate myself for this. but I want it fixed so bad. MY AREOLAS ARENT JUST A LITTLE TOO BIG. THEYRE HUGE! AND MY STRETCH MARKS…ARE BIG, WHITE, AND COVER MY SIDES. oh, i’m nasty. i just hate it. i cry and worry a lot about it. please help me.I can’t speak for every guy, and well I can only speak for myself. However the way I have always viewed women and beauty was always different from other guys.

As a person I can tell you that you are incredibly beautiful and that personally I have honestly thought of huge aeolas as not a turn off or unattractive but not my preference but that’s completely different if you were (just saying) my girlfriend. because, how do I put this… as far as I know, when a guy has the girl nothing else matters and I’m pretty damn sure most guys would accept any small flaws ’cause most guys are full of them as well. When it comes to sex, and there’s a naked girl in front of a guy, nothing else matters to him but that there’s a naked girl in front of him wanting to have sex with him. and anything else you do during or inbetween will only fuel his desire for you.

In my own experience, ’cause my body isn’t that great either… I’m shaped well, very physically fit but I do have a lot of scars, 32 to be exact from accidents and from people. I’ve been with two girls only but to them it didn’t matter how many i had, somehow they still found me attractive. though i’ll never understand how.

But you are beautiful, and of course being a guy, and a little desperate lol, would love to see exactly how big they are. That’s insensitive though. but if i did i know i’d be amazed and all that would matter to me was that i was seeing another woman’s breasts.i don’t wanna sound like a perv or anything. just trying to be honest. doubt this will help. but at the very least i do find you sexy, hot, very attractive and incredibly beautiful.

And also, before surgery do see counseling, a therapist, anything. if in a year or two you still feel this bad then yes, but surgery is a last resort and it may not fix the core of your problems. I never did like it when girls and women thought themselves to be ugly or unbeautiful. no matter what… every girl should feel beautiful.

I know this isn’t proper or anything. but if you wanna talk, just talk!… andy.the.pooh@live.caemail me. if you like.

and here’s my question i asked just before seeing yours. there’s some info about me as well and my issues lol

http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110219214028AAMNrTp

Should I get therapy or plastic surgery? I have large areolas and stretch marks. Hideous.?