Gone are the days in which women can only tone up a bit, get a fresh haircut, and buy new makeup before their wedding day in order to look their best. now women have many more options to help them look amazing on their big day.
Breast lifts, liposuction, and other forms of breast and plastic surgery are becoming regular parts of pre-wedding day routines for many women as Good Morning America recently reported. now, scar camouflage and nipple areola replacement even provide options that can help a bride to be sure the evidence of her procedures won’t become the focus on her special day.
Chances are you may have caught an episode or two of the new series Bridalplasty which brings the new pre-wedding plastic surgery trend to light. on Bridalplasty brides compete in a series of challenges to win the procedures they would like to undergo before their wedding day. It’s no surprise brides are willing to compete as plastic surgery procedures certainly do not come inexpensively. Plastic Surgeon Dr. Tenley told Good Morning America she treats as many as five brides-to-be each month and that several of them spend up to $15,000 on procedures.
Although the pre-wedding plastic surgery trend may disturb some, others feel that brides have a right to improve their own self esteem, comfort, and enjoyment of life as well as their enjoyment of their own wedding ceremony.
Several months before I got married, I was eating spanakopita and a colleague expressed surprise, since I was getting married.
Another colleague (and super blogger) Sarah Hinman Ryan stepped in and pointed out that I didn’t want people to change my appearance so much that people would look at our wedding pictures 10 years from now and say “is that Rich’s first wife.”
I never had plans to lose weight before getting married, but Sarah’s position further solidified my decision.
As we know, though, many brides do not feel the same. they diet and exercise and suffer through hunger pangs in an attempt to drop a size (or four) before the wedding.
But now brides-to-be are taking it to the extreme of all extremes and inserting a feeding tube in order to drop the L-Bs even quicker.
Oh, it’s true, and the details on this method called the K-E diet are here.
Bridalplasty is a reality show that is on E that has twelve women competing for their dream wedding and all of the plastic surgery procedures that they have on a list. Prior to coming on the show, the women had to fill out a wish list of all of the surgeries that they wanted to have done before their wedding. Each week there were wedding-themed challenges, and the winner would get one of the surgeries of her choice from the wish list. of course, the winner of the whole show would get not only all the procedures that they wanted, but also a dream wedding, including a gourmet cake, ring, dress, and venue. They even got a personal trainer to help them stay fit for the wedding.
The plastic surgeon who did all of the surgeries was Dr. Terry Dubrow. Immediately after a bride wins the challenge of the week, she goes to the plastic surgeon. He asks her which procedure she would like, and then the plastic surgeon gets right to work. They even show parts of the surgery on the air.
One of the challenges was to see if the brides could detect which food and drink was the more expensive one. They were given two champagnes to taste, two wines, and a couple of cakes. The one that guessed the most right, won one of the procedures from the wish list. another challenge was to test the compatibility of themselves and their fiancs. They had to answer questions as if they were their fiancs. there were a lot of surprises and tears after this challenge. Again, the person that answered the most correctly immediately got one of the procedures that they wanted.
The way that brides were eliminated, was that whoever were the lowest scoring would be sitting at a table. The women who were not at risk of leaving had to then RSVP to one of the bride’s tables. Each bride had to announce their vote by either stating it and then going to the table, or just simply taking a seat at one of the tables. sometimes it was clear after just a few RSVPs which bride was going home, but sometimes it took until the last vote was cast for a bride to be sent home. usually, the bride that had just gotten surgery the last week was exempt from the whole vote because she was in recovery. but in one of the episodes there was a tie, so the top bride was forced to be the tie breaker vote.
Though only one person won, many of the other brides got one or more of the procedures that they wanted, so for them, it was not an entire loss to have participated in the show. though the women that were sent home quickly, within the first two or three episodes, usually left empty handed. Some of the women received more than one surgery, which is probably worth thousands of dollars.
Imagine walking around with a tube that goes through your nose and passes through your esophagus, right down into your stomach.</p><p>A nasogastric tube, or feeding tube, provides nourishment. It’s usually reserved for patients with medical challenges. But now, feeding tubes are the new dietary rage.</p><p>last week, the <a href ="http://www.nytimes.com/2012/04/15/fashion/weddings/Losing-Weight-in-Time-for-the-Wedding.html?pagewanted=all" target="_blank">new York Times</a> ran a story about crash-dieting brides willing to undergo the 10-day K-E diet that costs $1,500 and requires a doctor’s supervision. </p><p>It’s an eyebrow-raising trend, but we know where it stems from. the pressure on brides and women in general to look a certain way is not imaginary.</p><p>When I was planning my wedding, every magazine had a get-fit-quick plan for brides. Looking a certain way was an ongoing dialogue.</p><p> There was no escape from the endless pictures of Kate Middleton and even short-term bride Kim Kardashian. There’s nothing wrong with losing weight healthfully, but magazines, TV, runways and society seem to scream, “Lose weight. Look perfect.” </p><p>Perfection is expected of women, not just by men, but by other women, because this is the culture of thinspiration and bodysnarking. we feel so insecure about our own image that we pick on others. I am no exception. I’ve been picked on for being too skinny and having acne. But I’ve also scoffed at the girls in too-short skirts and v-necks down to there. It’s the bullied becomes the bully complex. </p><p> This is why Ashley Judd’s puffy face became a thing to talk about recently. we all wondered if she was a victim of botched plastic surgery or a crazy beauty treatment. I shamefully admit I gave her face the questioning side-eye. and I know better. still, it’s easy to get caught up in the crazy talk.</p><p>in her essay for the <a href ="http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2012/04/09/ashley-judd-slaps-media-in-the-face-for-speculation-over-her-puffy-appearance.html" target="_blank">Daily Beast</a>, the actress blames the puffiness on steroids she was prescribed for an illness and takes us all to task over our obsession. </p><p>“the Conversation about women happens everywhere, publicly and privately,” she wrote. “we are described and detailed, our faces and bodies analyzed and picked apart, our worth ascertained and ascribed based on the reduction of personhood to simple physical objectification. Our voices, our personhood, our potential, and our accomplishments are regularly minimized and muted.”</p><p> she admits that she falls for it too. It’s one of those things in which none of us is completely innocent. and we must do better by our little girls and women.</p><p>Judd says men and boys face the same pressure when it comes to fulfilling an image of masculinity. I think there are unfair expectations for guys. But I don’t think it’s the same as what women go through.</p><p>On TV you can see a chubby, balding guy like “Modern Family’s” Jay Pritchett with the curvy and gorgeous Gloria. There is no reverse of that, not even in cartoon land with “Family Guy.” as long as a guy is funny, charming or talented, it almost doesn’t matter how he looks.</p><p> Adele, one of the most talented singers in the world, was called fat by designer Karl Lagerfeld. But Ruben Studdard, once “American Idol’s” winner, was considered a “teddy bear.”</p><p> Rapper Rick Ross, a Billboard regular known for his big belly, graced the cover of Vibe magazine’s sex issue last summer, shirtless. he has been called a sex symbol. But Jessica Simpson bares her naked, pregnant body on the cover of Elle and gets criticized for her weight. It’s called pregnant.</p><p>There is no way for women to mold themselves into this image of perfection the media pushes. But there is a way for us to quit feeding into this unhealthy diet of body shaming and accept ourselves as well as one another. </p><p>we cannot be reduced to our bodies, our faces and our clothes. we are much more than that. and it should be reflected in our conversations.
Every bride wants to look perfect on her special day, and that takes a lot of hard work and preparation (or so I hear…)… I thought I’d be a big help for all those brides (and their bridal parties!) with a little bit of information you might find helpful!
Actually… I think any time anyone attends a wedding they want to look good. Weddings = Pictures. and now-a-days, pictures – the good, the bad, and the ugly – wind up on Facebook! so if you’re at the age where you will be attending lots of weddings in the near future (i.e. my age) you might want to take some notes…
Non-Invasive
Spray Tan
Spray tan’s typically last 7-14 days. If your thinking of spraying (which I highly recommend), do it as close to your big day as possible! you can’t shower for 6 hours after a spray, and you can smell a little bit sugary post-spray, so keep this in mind. for the best results, spray the day before. as it wears off, it can sometimes look a little patchy. Make sure you exfoliate prior to your appointment (and shave).
Also, I hear there is a new spray out, that has glitter in it (OMG RIGHT!), but it’s only good for 24 hours I think? Maybe someone else knows more about this? I would also like to note here, that if you are not the bride, you should NOT be shining. That’s rude.
Facial
A plain old facial can be done anywhere from a few days to a month before a special date. Healthy skin is essential for a beautiful face. I recommend everyone see an aesthetician and purchasing some products that will keep your skin healthy.
Weddings are super stressful, and your skin responds to stress. Facials will keep break-outs at bay, not only by cleaning your skin, but by giving you some quality relaxation time. Spa days are great to do with your friends, mother, and future mother in law!
*Note: if you are planning on doing Botox or fillers, a facial should be done either immediately before or 5 days after any facial treatments.
Chemical Peel
Degree of peeling can vary, so talk to the aesthetician performing your peel and be CLEAR if you have any wedding events (or any events for that matter) that you don’t want to be shedding for. ‘tis the Season for Chemical Peels!. for a real good, deep peel, expect about a week to two of down time. Trust me, it’s worth it.
Very important: moisturize often with a pharmaceutical or cosmeceutical grade product after a peel. Many places have post-treatment kits. Do NOT pick at your skin! Stay out of the sun! Do not use Retin-A prior to or post treatment for about 7 days.
Waxing
Waxing your brows or lip shouldn’t be done the day of an event. the process can irritate your skin, leaving it a little red. Icing the area helps. or an anti-inflammatory like ibuprofen. Make sure to keep the area clean to keep bacteria out of your pores, and causing break outs.
Often done during the same time as a facial, and can cause some minor redness. Protect your skin after this treatment. Again, stay out of the sun, and do not use Retin-A prior to or post treatment for 7 days.
Laser Skin Rejuvenation Treatments
Depending on the laser, and the treatment, there can be some downtime with this (discoloration and flaking), anywhere from a day to a week. Ask your practitioner what to expect with the treatment you are receiving. these treatments really make your skin look great! never heard of laser skin rejuvenation? There will be blog posts to come!
Teeth Whitening
It depends on the number of treatments you will need to decide when you should start. some treatments take a few sessions, some are one and done. Go for a consult. at the very least, do the Crest White Strips.
Long Lashes
A lot of brides ask me about eye-lash extensions. although a little expensive, they look great for a wedding. They should be done about a week before your big event. They take some getting used to! Lovely Lashes!. They also don’t last very long… usually about a month, so don’t do them too soon unless you are going to keep up on them. If you are having your make-up professionally done, the make-up artist will probably offer you some sort of fake-eyelash. If you are doing your own make-up and you want that lashed out look, practice a few times before the big day. I am a master of the strip lash… but it took me about a year to perfect my technique!
Minimally Invasive Procedures
These can be tricky to time. If you are planning on doing any non-invasive procedures, they should be done either immediately before Botox and Fillers, or 5 days after. this is because you don’t want Botox to travel into the wrong muscle group, or fillers to be moved into the wrong area. Use good judgment with timing your treatments!
A lot of women do Botox and fillers before a big wedding!
Check out this article: http://www.nytimes.com/2008/07/24/fashion/24skin.html?pagewanted=all
(I’m the bridesmaid all the way to the left. I would like to add a disclaimer: the bride here is naturally beautiful. and has not let me tempt her into Botox—yet).
Botox
If you are new to Botox, I suggest trying it out 4-6 months prior to the wedding date for a couple of reasons. First, this way you can decide if you like it (which you will, but I still recommend trying it). second, Botox is a dose dependant medication (your results depend on how large or small a dose you receive). six months gives you plenty of time to work out with your injector the perfect dose for you! last, you will not be able to look angry for 3-6 months. this might be helpful to any Bridezilla’s out there. so, when you are in witch mode, at least you won’t look like it. J
If you don’t have six months to do a trial run, if you are a Botox Pro, or if you just want to go for it, you should have your treatment AT LEAST 1 month prior to the big day, and NO MORE than 2 months prior. Anything more than 2 months, it might start wearing off, anything less than a month you might not have the result you desire.
Another interesting use of Botox with Brides: It is becoming popular to be treated for hyperhydrosis (sweating) in the underarm. I recommend this to brides who will be getting married outside in 100 degree weather. Sweating profusely is pretty gross. You’re already going to be nervous, and when you add your layers of dress (which I’m sure is not air conditioned), and all the dancing you’re going to do… might be a good idea. Plus, you didn’t spend all that money on a dress to have pit-stains on it. this procedure requires a pretty big dose of Botox, and is therefore pretty expensive. It’s not for every bride.
Depending on the area of injection, there can be some minor bruising (or major depending on the injector). Invest in some Arnica cream, and expect the worst (2 weeks). Cheek augmentation bruises the least, while lip augmentation and nasal labial folds tend to bruise the most. Gosh, I hate it when I have dental work the average bruise lasts a few days.
Usually older brides are doing facial fillers, while younger brides might want to plump their lips.
As for the rest of the wedding participants, the mothers of the bride and groom are usually also very interested in fillers (and Botox). After all, they have been looking forward to this day since the days BEFORE their children gave them premature wrinkles. Whether she is interested in a facial or Botox treatment, moms deserve to be asked “is this your sister?”
Things to Do 6 Months or more before a Wedding (or wait until after):
- Bioenhancers like Sculptra Aesthetic (it can take up to 6 weeks to see a difference)
- Plastic Surgery. Remember that crazy reality show on TV that brides were competing with each other trying to win plastic surgery procedures so they could be perfect for their big day? those women were … appalling. Plastic surgery should never be taken lightly. or have a competitive reality show. Leave competitive reality to “Survivor!”
- Changing your hair color or cutting it short (stick to what you know looks good on you!)
Weddings are a time when everyone involved wants to look their best. However, the bride and mother of the bride truly experience a red carpet moment on the special day, and want to achieve a picture-perfect look. they can start preparing long before the event to ensure that they look their best for the memorable occasion.
Facial rejuvenation is a wonderful way to enjoy a refreshed, more youthful look for the big day. From non-invasive procedures such as injectable fillers to the more involved deep-plane and vertical facelifts, facial plastic surgeons can help brides and their mothers achieve an improved facial appearance. However, timing is critical when considering aesthetic enhancements. Patients have to be aware of the recovery time involved with each procedure, so they are certain to look their best for the wedding day.
In many cases, brides and/or their mothers want to spruce up their look by filling in lines, wrinkles and scars or improve skin texture. There are a wide variety of non-invasive procedures that surgeons can perform.
For example, injectable dermal fillers such as Restylane, Perlane, Juvederm Ultra, Juvederm Ultra Plus, Radiesse, and Artefill can improve smile lines, marionette lines (the lines which run from the outer corners of the nose to the outer corners of the mouth), cheek hollows and creases, chin creases, frown lines, mid-face, and hollows under the eyes. There is minimal to no downtime following these procedures, so they are perfect for those who want a pick-me-up just before the wedding. the majority of fillers last from six months to two years.
Sculptra, another dermal filler that promotes a more youthful appearance, is a biostimulator; therefore, it takes a few months before results appear. Patients enjoy significant, gradual improvement of the facial appearance. Sculptra provides the foundation to restore a youthful appearance that can last up to two years or more.
Other options to treat wrinkles before the wedding day are Botox and Dysport, neurotoxins that weaken the muscles into which they are placed. Final Dysport treatment results can be seen approximately 10 days after the procedure; it may take up to two weeks to see the maximal effects of Botox. the effects of Dysport and Botox should last about three to five months.
Another choice for making the face look fabulous for the wedding day is skin resurfacing. this reverses the signs of aging by removing damaged portions of the skin, and stimulating the growth of new collagen. It can correct facial wrinkles, sun damaged skin, acne scarring, freshen the skin’s appearance, and improve abnormal skin coloration. There are three types of skin resurfacing: chemical peels, laser peels, and dermabrasion. the type of peel will determine how deep the skin is resurfaced and recovery time. the effects of skin resurfacing are long lasting and may be permanent depending on the laser used.
Mothers who desire a more natural improvement commonly opt for the more complex and permanent facial fat grafting, which is used to precisely sculpt the face to restore a more youthful appearance. During the procedure, live fat cells are harvested from one area of the body, then processed, distilled and injected into facial areas. Recovery generally takes one to two weeks.
Mothers seeking to improve the look around their eyes have chosen to undergo procedures such as an eyelid lift, which restores the eyes’ youthful appearance. after an eye lid lift, patients usually enjoy full activities after 10 days. the results of eyelid surgery are long-lasting. In the majority of patients, the procedure is only performed once.
Another popular procedure for mothers is a deep plane facelift, which restores the jowls, neck, and mid-face to their youthful positions. the recovery time for a deep plane facelift takes one to three weeks. Deep plane facelifts typically last between eight and 12 years.
Remember, to create wonderful memories and ensure optimal facial enhancement results for the big day, it’s extremely important to work with a highly experienced and credible facial plastic surgeon. It is also important that you give ample time to allow for healing so that you look your best for that special day. be sure to understand the time frame required for each of these procedures. Discussion with a qualified facial plastic surgeon will help ou plan on putting your best face forward on your big day.
Question: I just went through a divorce; is this a good time to have plastic surgery?
Answer: We mark the times of our lives by transitions. Many people take these times of transition to make other types of changes to themselves, specifically cosmetically. they are often looking to rejuvenate, renew and refresh. And let’s face it, plastic surgery is more about confidence-building than anything else.
Not surprisingly, it is helpful to do what you can to increase your confidence during times of change. We have found that patients tend to have the following plastic surgery during times of transition:
DIVORCE. We see requests for facial work — eyes, neck and face lifts, and even cosmetic breast surgery or liposuction.
After CHILDBIRTH, we see the “Mommy Makeovers” — tummy tucks, breast lifts and breast augmentations.
For the BIG DECADE BIRTHDAYS. It depends on the decade!
For WEDDINGS (depending on who’s getting married), we see brides doing breast augmentation and liposuction, and the mothers-of-the bride doing facelifts, eyelid surgery, and injectables.
For CLASS REUNIONS, it’s usually facial work with face, neck and eyelid surgery, injectables, and even some liposuction or breast augmentation.
For those GRADUATING, it may be breast augmentation or even rhinoplasty.
For the JOB SEARCH/CHANGE, it’s also facial work with surgeries and injectables.
Despite the refreshing changes plastic surgery can make it, will not fix a broken marriage or lock in a new job. However, once you have decided you are making a life change, we are there to help you go through it looking and feeling your most confident, so you can be the best “you” when it matters most!
Did you think that Bridezillas was a hideous example of brides gone horribly wrong? Just wait until you see the latest wedding reality show Bridalplasty. Believe or not, Bridalplasty is a reality show in which brides compete not just for a dream wedding, but for the dream face or body to go with it – courtesy of plastic surgery Just when you think that reality tv can’t get any worse, along comes this shocking program to prove us all wrong.
I love watching shows about weddings. say Yes to the Dress, whose Wedding Is It Anyway, My fair Wedding – you name it, I have watched it. I pretty much thought I had seen it all until I stumbled across Bridalplasty. Could there really be a tv show in which women compete for plastic surgery? Is it remotely ethical? Apparently the answers are yes and no – we have reached a new low in reality tv, and ethics do not even enter into the discussion.
The general concept behind Bridalplasty is that the brides enter into challenges in order to stay in the competition and earn plastic surgery procedures. in each contest, the bottom finishers are in danger of being cut from the competition. in the show that I watched, the brides had to assemble life-sized puzzles of what they would look like post-plastic surgery. as each woman finished, she was instructed to grab a syringe and go see the doctor for an injectible for her face. seriously, you cannot make this stuff up
Then the other girls have to vote between the two lowest finishers – to their faces – and decide which bride is going to be kicked out of the competition. of course, look out if you voted against the bride who ended up getting enough votes to stay; can we say vendetta? the challenge winner gets to have one of the procedures from her laundry list of desired surgeries. many of the brides have ten or more procedures that they think they must have in order to be the perfect bride for their wedding day. Common wishes are liposuction, breast augmentation, Botox, and nose jobs.
The thing that I find so disturbing about Bridalplasty is that it promotes the idea that a woman has to completely reinvent herself to be pretty enough to get married. Some of the women on the program are actually quite attractive as they are and already have figures which the average American woman would love to have and what about the self-esteem of all but the lucky winner – those women who leave without their dream transformations complete? How will they even be able to stand seeing their regular old selves in a wedding dress and pearl bridal jewelry on the day of their wedding? will they ever learn that they are beautiful just the way they are?
One has to wonder what the fiances of the contestants on Bridalplasty think of the whole thing. Presumably, they love their fiancees just as they are, which is why they want to marry them. How is the groom of the winner going to feel when the radiant bride in her white gown, veil, and pearl bridal jewelry comes down the aisle to him – and he hardly recognizes her? as much as I love wedding shows, I don’t think I have the stomach to include Bridalplasty in my regular viewing rotation.
In America, TV shows which contain engaged couples and their wedding dreams, provide free plastic surgery before their weddings. The shows direct to women to bridalplasty. Women start to think that If they can’t under the knife before wedding, they won’t beautiful. All brides should go undergone the plastic surgery.
“Wedding wars” TV show contains 12 engaged couples. Which bride will win the Show, she will have plastic surgery operation for free. these TV shows give the message If brides are not perfect, wedding will be not perfect. Women should be perfect.
I saw an advertisement for a new television show on E! called “Bridalplasty”, which coins the phrase, “The competition gets cut!” – literally. The premise of this new Barbie-wannabe reality show intends on having brides-to-be compete in wedding-related tasks to be awarded with… wait for it… PLASTIC SURGERY PROCEDURES!! WHAT?!?! I swear my jaw dropped to the ground and started running with me on the treadmill when I saw this commercial playing at the gym; the irony being I was working on sculpting my body through physical exertion, while these life-sized soon-to-be-Barbie Dolls are vying viciously to cut and suck the fat out of their bodies. I much prefer my methods, but it seems as though some are unfortunately trapped inside of this warped reality with no hope but the slice of the knife.
I can’t tell, however, if it’s the media that provides the images that satiate this type of sickness or if it’s something within the girls who applied for the show. having never seen an episode (although I’m salivating over the prospect to see how distasteful it will be), I can only surmise that it is probably a combination of both. We can’t discredit the fact that some bigwig somewhere in TV land gave this project the green light, but who are the creators? are they drunken jokesters looking to get a rise out of the American public? I know my friends and I sometimes banter over others physical inequities, but never are we malicious or hurtful. We mostly make fun of each other, ourselves, or the general public without casting specific darts. If I am to editorialize this show, then I’d say these women are specifically targeted for ridicule. The creators could very possibly be well-educated scientists trying to sociologically prove that women will go to any lengths to look like the idolized Barbie Doll. Ever since the 1950s when Barbie and Ms. Marilyn Monroe came onto the scene, women in America strove to be long-legged, small-waisted and large-breasted. Genetically speaking, only a small percentage of the population is naturally as such, yet women never ceased the need or want to morph their already perfectly formed figures into the unrealistic shape that the media and entertainment created by presenting both Barbie and Marilyn as products. without a doubt, our Bridalplasty creators are part of the reality show boom that never died when it should have, and they probably just want to make a buck off of someone else’s emotional misfortune. Whatever the case, I don’t find the concept the least bit amusing.
The other concern I have is that the men proposed to these women before they got plastic surgery. Now these poor blokes spent way too much money on a ring for someone they thought was perfect in their mind, and now they may not even recognize their future life partner on their wedding day. that is one of the kickers of the show – the women who make it until the end don’t show off their makeovers until the wedding day! Imagine proposing to someone thinking you are going to start a lifetime with the one you love, only to find out that you are really moving into years of with a woman who was so uncomfortable with herself that she decided to cut her face and body apart and have it sewn back together. I don’t know that I’d respond approvingly to my soon-to-be-spouse if he decided to to go under the knife. yet after thinking about the contestants a little more deeply, I realized their discomfort with their appearance is probably more than a Barbie Doll complex. So I decided to educate myself on Body Dysmorphic Disorder, an illness where the subject cannot stop obsessing over their looks, so that my understanding of what these women feel will forge an empathetic evaluation rather than a catty abhorrence to the contestants.
Made famous by Michael Jackson, Body Dysmorphic Disorder is an obsession so deep that the people who suffer from it drastically change their physical body in order to look more “ideal” or what they consider ideal. I’m sure at stages in each of our lives we all considered changing something about our body and overall appearance. For instance, when I was a kid, I thought I could cut the muscle out of my calf to make it thinner. I used to drape my leg so that my calf would relax just below my leg, and that way I could catch a glimpse of what it would look like if my legs were not as muscular as they are. What I realized is that 1) I don’t think there is such a thing as a calf reduction surgery, and 2) I might be bow-legged. regardless, I grew out of that mindset and now I embrace my freakishly strong legs – unless I’m trying on tall boots, in which case, I need to find ones that stretch. but these who suffer from BDD go far beyond the typical passing thought of changing a physical appearance. It has to do with acceptance by people beyond their intimate circle, and the symptoms are largely connected to altering ones appearance through means of clothing, make-up, excessive grooming, and – drum roll…. plastic surgery. although there are many other symptoms and signs of this disorder, permanently changing ones features is by far the most extreme indicators. one that seems to be publicized as entertainment thanks to this new reality show.
If plastic surgery is what it takes for these women to feel beautiful enough to be loved and admired by not only their husbands, but by an entire cable-purchasing viewing audience, then there are obviously concessions the media needs to make to not force this disorder into the public eye using such an undesirable platform. It’s a serious issue, one not to be made light of, yet to those bigwigs, it’s cutting edge entertainment.