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Cosmetic Surgery May Cause Death

Make Sure you a Qualified Surgeon Will Perform your Operation

Unfortunately, most of the cases that we get to hear on the news of people (mainly women) that died as a consequence of Plastic or Cosmetic Surgery are those of people that are famous. the stories from normal people don’t get much publicity.

I am not publishing this article with the purpose of creating fear of Plastic or Cosmetic Surgery but to be honest if there wasn’t a risk I’d have gone for my Nose Job long time ago. After having my two girls the always small but real risk of death has put me away from Plastic Surgery. my vanity doesn’t go to far. although, I respect people that decide to go through it.

There is a 1 in 3200 chance that patients that undergo multiple cometic procedures will die.

My point here is that women who consider a plastic surgery should understand that most cosmetic surgeries are major surgeries. the Cosmetic title does not make them safer.

Would you choose to have a heart operation if it wasn’t necessary?

Many women have self-esteem issues and they believe cosmetic surgery is completely necessary for them to feel better about themselves. If that is your case just understand the risks and go to answer the following question:

Would you choose a Pediatritian for your heart operation?

I make this question to you so you can make a better decision of who to choose for your cosmetic surgery.

Always make sure you are in hands of a qualified and experience surgeon. find out about his success rate and remember every case is different.

Sad Stories

Donda West, the mother of the Hip Hop Star Kanye West’s, died dued to complication of undergoing cosmetic surgery. the doctor was not a qualified surgeon.

” West had passed away as the result of complications from a cosmetic surgical procedure”

In 2009 a 38 years old Argentinian Model died too as a consequence of Cosmetic Surgery.

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Cosmetic Surgery May Cause Death

Is Plastic Surgery Worth It?

Okay, listen to my life's story before you answer. My biggest fear in life is turning into a bald, ugly, fat man. I am 18 and my nose definitely needs a little bit of work, some people think I'm jewish. I also don't want wrinkles when I get older, so I'll need some botox for that. I honestly would feel a bit better if I had a perfect nose. maybe I'll break it or say I have a deviated septum, that way I'll feel less shallow.

So is it worth it? how expensive is it? When is the best age to get it? and what are the dangers of it?

Not to scare you, but I know someone who knows some one who died from getting plastic surgery on their nose.

Is Plastic Surgery Worth It?

Mind the Biggest Organ of Lust

Power Intoxicates Mind

Lust for power is actually basic human drive to dominate others. Power intoxicates mind and leads to resentment, distorting relationships, losing grip on reality, and affects judgment. Holding on to power often justifies abusing power. Most people do not realize that in the pursuit of gaining power by any means, they degenerate their mind and create a mockery of themselves. look at the politicians, how they fool the electorate by coining new slogans in pursuit of gaining power. When elected, they rarely visit their constituents and have very little to do with serving people. People all over are beginning to understand the poisonous nature of power hungry. Similarly richness brings in power, respect, and money, yet most of the rich and powerful are lonely and unhappy. There are stories of millionaires and billionaires world over who have lot of fears, sadness, and despair. Thich Nhat Hanh  in his classics ‘The Art of Power’ strongly advocates, “Here is another kind of power, a greater power: the power to be happy right in the present moment, free from addiction, fear, despair, discrimination, anger and ignorance.”

Lust a Problem not Sex

We’re bombarded with erotic images and messages all around from morning till we crash in the bed at night. our senses lead to attention and convert to thoughts and emotions. for instance when we drive to work, usually we come across a smart looking female driving past by or an attractively dressed young woman crossing the street. As soon we enter the office, we are greeted by the female receptionist in new tight fits. during lunch time, usually we are confronted with gossips of some colleagues dating their female coworkers. When we finally get home, we find family surfing TV channels for ‘Bay Watch’ or fashion shows. with the high level of erotic stimulation we face on a daily basis, it becomes difficult to keep away from lust. We are also influenced by our karmas, and societal interaction. Lust is also driven by sex hormones like testosterone and estrogens. for instance if a woman rubs and caresses us, it creates thoughts of sexuality by share sense of touch. Rape, molestations, addiction to pornography is an out come of lust. it generates highest level of negative energy leading to destruction of segregating right from the wrong. the Upanishads state, “The senses are the powerful steeds running amuck in the mire of sensuous gratification”. Sex no doubt relaxes, rejuvenates, and is mind blowing. it tones body and improves work performance. the male mind visualises faster the objective of having sex.  Females get sexual drive by intimacy, kindness, emotional attachment and of course physical attraction. According to Zen ‘life as a whole may be worshipped, but making more out of sex than it deserves is false spirituality. it discourages sexual over indulgence.’ Lust in essence is degeneration of mind and is often purely for our personal satisfaction and builds ego in due course of time. Lust is a negative energy of highest order and can be avoided by controlling our mind.our mind is 24×7 wiled as thousands of thoughts traverse during the day most of which are imaginative. Most often these thoughts visualize woman as an object of lust. least do we realise that she is the source of energy keeping us going. God created woman as a soul to perform the role of our mother, wife, daughter and sister. Woman needs to be put in a proper respectful perspective rather than looking through the spectacle of our lustful eyes. Erotism is purely a state of mind.

Steps for Taming Lust

1.    Discipline thoughts and control attention by mindfulness meditation say for 30 minutes daily in silence.  be aware of thoughts, allow these to come and go without attaching. Brainwash beliefs and feelings of lust in subconscious mind by self affirmation i.e. ‘I will change lust to love. Lust is sinful. Lust leads to sufferings’.

2.    Find source and origin for perverseness. Is it related to a dream, fantasy or a sexual desire generated and not achieved due to fear, self reputation or society norms?

3.    Focus on the opposite. for instance if we are rearing to having sex with a particular person. Immediately imagine thinking in reverse. Visualise the person to be obnoxious /dreadful/shabby looking etc. Build an ugly mental picture.

4.    Shift to a less spicy vegetarian diet. Reduce the consumption of onions, garlic, ginger and other spices. Consume curd in good quantity and take as much water /juices as possible. Control intake of liquor and coffee. Prefer non vegetarian dishes like fish and chicken in little quantity occasionally. the idea is to control the in

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Should I be insulted or just brush it off?

So my Mom will be moving to Florida in a few weeks. a few week ago she said that once the closing on her house was final she wanted to give me 500.00. nice right?
Well today she calls and says that she want me to use the 500.00 on me. Nice right?
Then she says to me "you need to get better fitting bras with some lift . and you need to get a proffesional facial. the last I saw you your pores were so large. You always had such beautiful skin" which is not true. I have noticed that my Mom is loosing it. should I let it go? My mom is also a very insulting person that always comments on how people look and dress. She never wanted her bday acknowleged because she was in fear of getting old. She has also has a few plastic surgery's to turn back the clock…
What are you thought's or comments?.

i hate peope who dont watch their tounge tell her she better be nice before somebody fires back. why are you just sucking it up, tell her you dont like it, its rude and it makes you feel bad!!

i would just brush it off…sounds to me like she is just trying to help…she probably doesn't realize it was insulting you

Brush it off

Enjoy being spoiled by your mother. You seem like you have good self esteem. be happy and just let your mother indulge you on things that make her happy.

Ignore her mean comments,tell her you like the way you look and are happy.just because she isn't happy with her appearence,doesn't mean she has to make everyone else feel bad.and let her know this.

There is nothing that you can do to change her. just ignore her comments unless she starts interfering in your personal life. some mothers just want perfect for their children.

she seems to be a person who cares a lot about a person's physical beauty like her own and your's. she sounds as if she particularly looks for the negatives on people to be able to find a way to fix the problem to feel as though she has helped them out by doing so. if i were you, i would just brush it off. thank her for the advice and go on with your life. if you feel comfortable in your own skin then don't bother with what anyone else thinks.

Don't take it personally your mom just wants to be younger..and doesn't want you have the same feelings as her at her age…just be respectful and try telling her how you feel..i cant stress this enough honestly is the best way to go even if it is hard to say..good luck with your mom

I think you have to talk to your mom about how you feel about the comments that she gave you. It's not going to be easy but it's always better if you both know how you feel…she probably just used to doing that that she doesn't know if it's insulting or not. There's always a better way to say things like that so it won't sound so insulting.

Should I be insulted or just brush it off?