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Fox29 WFLX TV, West Palm Beach, Florida-Engagement ring swept away after brain surgeon buries it in sand

NAPLES, FL (WFLX) – a marriage proposal goes wrong after the engagement ring is lost in the Florida sand.

But staff at the Pelican Bay Resort in Naples, other beachgoers and one very special man helped saved the day. “He came down this ramp with this easy, confident smile,” recalled Steve Carr.

Everybody's engagement story is special. “It was definitely a memorable experience,” said Mary Naam.

But for Steve and Mary, it almost never happened. “I can't really see where the sandbar is,” said Steve. “It's so under water now which is disconcerting.”

While the couple was visiting Naples from Colorado, Steve had a foolproof plan. “I had gotten her parents' permission just a few days before, and I wanted it to happen on this trip.”

He had buried the diamond ring in the sand, so she could find it digging. “It wasn't very smart. I wouldn't recommend doing something so risky,” said a beachgoer.

Seconds of digging turned to minutes. “'I lost it, Mary, I lost it!' Kinda like that. 'It's gone,'” Steve said.

Pelican Bay staff and beachgoers helped the search. “By the end, we had a dozen people, I think, actively looking for a few hours,” Mary recounted.

“Comical,” said one beachgoer. “A little in disbelief that he had dropped a ring into the Gulf.”

“In the back of your head, you're thinking, 'oh yeah, but that stuff only happens in the movies and what not,'” laughed Steve.

What's worse is Steve Carr is Dr. Steve Carr — a brain surgeon! “Probably not the smartest idea.”

“Someone said, 'Ya know, this is a strange question to ask a stranger, but did she say yes?' And I said, 'I haven't asked her yet,'” said Steve.

Mary, of course, wanted to marry Steve, so she looked up ring finders on Google. two hours later, Larry Spearing showed up. “And, we'd go back and forth and the tension was killing us,” said Steve.

“We were digging, and we were digging, and, I thought, there was no way we were gonna find it,” said Mary. “But Steve was determined.”

A few minutes passed, until finally, there it was. “To be honest, I didn't really care about the expense of it all, the ring and what not, I just really wanted to be engaged with her at that point,” said Steve.

“Yeah, you gotta feel sorry for the guy who's been digging around in the rain for a couple hours. How could you say no to that?” laughed Mary.

In case you had any doubt, she said yes. “In retrospect, I'm just glad it had a happy ending,” said Steve.

Mary added, “And, it's never leaving my finger again.”

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Fox29 WFLX TV, West Palm Beach, Florida-Engagement ring swept away after brain surgeon buries it in sand

Oscar winner puts a brave ‘Face’ on cruelty and redemption

March 08, 2012 12:00 AM

A tale of bravery and defiance and almost unimaginable cruelty, the film “Saving Face” (8:30 p.m. on HBO) just won the 2012 Oscar for best documentary short.

The film explores Pakistan’s dark history of angry men and their relatives who burn women’s faces — often with battery acid — as a means to punish a disobedient wife or to demean and destroy a woman who refuses a marriage proposal or sexual advances. Women as young as 12 come to the Acid Survivors Foundation, a special clinic in Islamabad.

Dr. Mohammad Jawad, a Pakistani-born plastic surgeon living in London, volunteers his time and services to help these women and give them back their pride, if not their lives. One woman seen here is so poor and desperate that she’s forced to live with the man who, along with his family, burned her with acid and set her on fire.

The Pakistan that is seen in “Saving Face” is like a 21st-century society with one foot stuck in the Middle Ages. but we also see growing ranks of women lawyers, doctors and politicians demanding legislation to toughen laws and enact stricter sentences for perpetrators of these grotesque crimes. The film’s main stories follow two victims through surgery and recuperation as well as the progress of anti-burning legislation through Pakistan’s parliament. We also meet accused perpetrators whose elaborate justifications, denials and excuses give new meaning to the phrase “the banality of evil.”

A short, poignant work, “Saving Face” barely penetrates the mentality that leads Pakistani men to such actions. Jawad explains that he offers up his work as a kind of expiation for a society that creates such monsters. but he freely admits that there is only so much he can do.

— The first finalist goes home on “American Idol” (8 p.m., Fox, TV-PG).

— Liz hatches a new attention-getting scheme on “30 Rock” (8 p.m., NBC, TV-14).

— The gang bids farewell to Tallahassee on “The Office” (9 p.m., NBC, TV-14).

— Lost in a hurricane on “The Finder” (9 p.m., Fox, TV-PG).

—”Japan Tsunami: tales of Terror” (9 p.m., TLC, TV- PG) recalls the disasters that rocked the country in 2011 as captured by eyewitnesses and amateur photographers.

— Ricki Lake and Divine star in director John Waters’ 1988 period comedy “Hairspray” (9 p.m., Logo), the film that inspired the Broadway musical and subsequent big- budget movie adaptation. while remakes have reduced it to a confection, it remains one of the few films that asked audiences to laugh at the ridiculousness of American racism.

— a diminutive suspect transcends parallel worlds on “Awake” (10 p.m., NBC, TV-14).

— Go “Celebrity House Hunting” (Bio, TV-PG) with Ice- T and Coco (10 p.m.) and Andy Dick (10:30 p.m.).

Anthony Perkins and Tuesday Weld star in the 1968 shocker “Pretty Poison” (10:15 p.m., TCM). this follows the 1944 comedy “Arsenic and old Lace” (8 p.m.), starring Cary Grant.

On two episodes of “The Big Bang Theory” (CBS, TV-PG): Relationships 101 (8 p.m.), less than enthused (8:30 p.m., r) … Snow and penguins on “Wipeout” (8 p.m., ABC, r, TV- PG) … a dinner party ruined on “The Vampire Diaries” (8 p.m., The CW, r, TV-14) … Sean Hayes guest-stars on “Parks and Recreation” (8:30 p.m., NBC, TV-PG).

An infant may become the next “Person of Interest” (9 p.m., CBS, TV-14) … a monster returns on “Supernatural” (9 p.m., The CW, r, TV-14) … a surgical milestone on “Grey’s Anatomy” (9 p.m., ABC, r, TV-14) … Coupled-up friends on “Up All Night” (9:30 p.m., NBC, TV-14).

Suspect motives on “The Mentalist” (10 p.m., CBS, TV- 14) … The search committee seems baffled on “Private Practice” (10 p.m., ABC, r, TV-14).

Trita Parsi is scheduled on “The Daily show with Jon Stewart” (11 p.m., Comedy Central) … Rob Riggle and Mike Lawrence appear on “Conan” (11 p.m., TBS) … Jennifer Westfeldt, Jeff Wild, Natasha Leggero and Bobby Lee are booked on “Chelsea Lately” (11 p.m., E!) … Don Fleming and Emmylou Harris sit down on “The Colbert Report” (11:30 p.m., Comedy Central).

Howard Stern and the Airborne Toxic Event appear on “Late show with David Letterman” (11:35 p.m., CBS, r) … Jay Leno welcomes Jennifer Aniston, Adam Levine and Chiddy Bang on “The Tonight Show” (11:35 p.m., NBC, r) … Joan Rivers, Maria Menounos and Mat Kearney appear on “Jimmy Kimmel Live” (midnight, ABC, r).

Maya Rudolph, Dylan Ratigan and Young Jeezy featuring Ne-Yo visit “Late Night with Jimmy Fallon” (12:35 a.m., NBC, r) … Craig Ferguson hosts Raquel Welch and Carl Edwards on “The Late Late Show” (12:35 a.m., CBS).

Kevin McDonough can be reached at kevin.tvguy@gmail.com.

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Oscar winner puts a brave ‘Face’ on cruelty and redemption